Friday, March 26, 2010

Secrets to Dating a Married Man

Now even though I dont condone this behavior but this week me and my friends was talking about this subject and I hope that person read my blog. I happen to find this on another site and what she wrote made alot of sense. So for you sisters out there that are dealing with a marry man please read.

This is my list of how to date someone that is married and keep your sanity and also, how to make him yours!
Never forget the reality of the situation. He is married. At the end of the day, he goes home to his wife and you sleep alone.
Take things as they come, don’t ever press for answers or change.
Don’t cut yourself off from the dating world. If someone catches your eye and he is available, go for it.
Never make ultimatums that you don’t intend to follow through on.
Share with someone that you trust. It can be very isolating because of the inherent secrecy and people’s judgments.
Don’t chase him, let him come to you.
Do not become a stalker. You gain nothing by driving by his house and the like.
Don’t settle with this. If you need or want more from a relationship go out and get it.
Don’t expect anything and you won’t be disappointed, but you may be pleasantly surprised.
He isn’t committing to you, so don’t commit to him.
Never judge his wife, you are not in her shoes and you don’t know her side.
Don’t get pregnant or fake a pregnancy in order to force change.
Never bring up something about you and he in the distant future. Planning for next week is fine, but planning that Spring vacation is taboo.
Become a good listener and that includes noticing body language.
Be positive as much as possible.
16. Never, never push.
Don’t ask questions that you may not like the answers too.
Make the time that you have special.

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